Building relationships of mutual trust and interdependence.

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And I rejoice that my family- wife, parents, children, and uncle have a pastor in Jim. Over half of my ministry has occurred within churches with multiple staffs. That didn’t necessarily mean my family had a pastor. But, Jim has been their pastor since day one (reference the recommendation letter by my wife and mother}. Jim is a great teammate, colleague, and pastor. I will be glad to share more about Jim in person or telephone. Jim is called by God; he meets the Marks of Ministry.   Rev. Paul A. Whitlock


When our son, Seth died on May 21st of 2010, Jim was there for us with comforting words and friendship even though he and Jeff were having their own trouble with Jeff’s health. We asked Jim to do a memorial service for Seth as he had known him while we attended Epworth. He was very organized and helpful with suggestions and our wishes and needs at this time. We felt his true caring for our feelings of loss and need for a steadfast Christian presence which he provided. There was never any judgment only comforting words and caring actions. – J. Garnet


…the specific times he showed his love of God’s world, and his compassion for the people in it, when he created the service for my dearest friends’ son, a very young man who had taken his own life. Jim’s loving help and ministry in creating the celebration of Seth’s life, and giving comfort to the devastated family and friends who loved Seth, was nothing less than extraordinary. He assuaged despair, and instilled hope, and reminded us all of the way God loves ALL His Children.

This past year, my own son, Ben, was diagnosed with a fatal tumor. He suffered a year and a few months of slow deterioration of body, and mind. Through it all, Jim was supportive and continues to be so as we prepare the celebration of Ben’s life. He has continued to nurture and coax us moving forward through our griet anger, and pain, by being a reminding example of the way we are to proceed through hardships.  Dawn Bell


Theological “Groundedness” and Ecumenical Orientation: Social Justice and Ecumenism are increasingly important functions of our ministries. Jim has been very supportive of these immerging components of our church life. Jim speaks with confidence and credibility when discussing the importance of following the teachings of Jesus and not being distracted by man-made barriers that create walls of separation and sow seeds of disharmony rather than harmony. Jim preaches and practices love of God and love of all our brothers and sisters (all of God’s children). His is a courageous champion for the love that Jesus taught, and a living testimonial that those who some may reject have a place in God’s kingdom and an important role to play in the life of the church here on earth. Jim encourages all to reach out, be open, and do the mission work of the church. He is an individual who is trusted and respected by all who know him. – Pat & John Durbin


He works well with folks across a spectrum of beliefs, interests, and abilities. He strives for excellence in all things, and does so with an infectious spirit that inspires and uplifts. He is effective at recruiting, motivating, training, and encouraging working teams. He takes good care of the people he shepherds – tending to their spirits as much as their production. Jim is ultra-reliable, emotionally secure, spiritually mature, and exhibits the finest in ministry ethics and boundaries  – Rev. Leonard W. Silvester


I was able to observe and experience his faith and passion for ministry, not only through his skills in music, but in his love and care for many others in the congregation. Jim made hospital visits, and was especially pastoral to members of the choir and their families. He preached and served in various capacities in worship services, and took an active part in worship-planning. – – Rev. James Meadows


In the political climate we live in and the amazing diversity that is our humanity, we’ve seen how Jim connects with all people with compassion, gentleness and sensitivity. Just as we are all on journey and are being conformed to the image of Christ, this has been evident over the many years we’ve known Jim. He has matured in his understanding of who God is, who God has made him to be, and how to be Christ’s presence in this world. This growth has definitely shaped his character, which has ultimately changed how he lives in relationship to others, as well as his work ethic. He has always had a very strong sense of commitment to the church and to his personal relationships.

Having a heart for justice and mercy is one of the reasons that he desires to be a part of UCC. Recently he expressed that in the climate of injustice that we are facing these days, we can’t just sit back but need to have a voice and take a stand. We’ve also discussed how he deals with others that have different beliefs or views. We appreciate that he can listen and engage in conversation, but does not push his beliefs or agenda on others, even if they are trying to push their beliefs on him. Again, this is the sensitivity we were talking about earlier. Even with other church members with whom he may not agree, his main objective is to minister to them where they are, and be what they need. His willingness to engage with others allows him to enter into a relationship, which then can build mutual respect and trust. His love for people and his sincerity make him a comfortable person to be around. The gift of hospitality does not come easy to everyone, but seems to be quite natural for Jim.   – Rev. Nancy Gunn, Minister of Worship, Church at Cactus  David Gunn, Pastor, Church at Cactus 


1) my youngest son’s incarceration and, when he returned home, Jim was one of the first to offer him work and help him to reestablish himself as a contributing member of society, 2) the resulting 12 years of separation from our grandchildren and the ultimate reunion with our oldest granddaughter (he continues to pray with us for the full restoration of our family with the return of our grandson), 3} multiple surgeries for BOTH my husband and myself, some with long and complicated recoveries, 4) the loss of his father, both of my
parents and the near loss of his partner Jeff and the resulting transplant that saved his life, 5) the discrimination and alienation from church “families”- for a variety of reasons, 6) support, encouragement and funding for me to go on not 1 but 2 mission trips – to Peru and Zimbabwe – and the spiritual growth I received from them, and 7) ultimately finding a denomination that we all feel truly is the “church” God wants us all to be! – Toni and Steven Berg


“Working Together For Justice & Mercy” Jim’s leadership of the Board of Worship & Fine Arts is an example of engaging in mission & outreach & building relationships of mutual trust & interdependence, in that he organizes &/or oversees organization of events I trips where church members & guests can come together. In so doing, new friendships are made that can enhance trust & interdependence within the body of Christ. – Malinda Case